Nothing
will be more important to you than your children. Unfortunately, a poor state
of mind can impact your ability to care for your son or daughter and provide
him or her with a happy, healthy childhood. It is your job as a parent to
become a role model for your child
because they will look to you when making decisions and learning right from
wrong. To ensure you give your son or daughter the best start in life, read the
below advice on how to truly be there for
your children.
Nurture Every Part of
Yourself
Every
parent has a responsibility to nurture every part of themselves, such as their
mental, physical and emotional health. If you fail to care for your body or
take action to stop a problem in its tracks, your choices will impact your
child. For instance, it is common for some people to turn to drugs to deal with
crippling emotions, but you can turn your life around for the sake of your
child by embarking on a Suboxone treatment program or similar.
Busy
parents tend to push themselves harder when running a hectic home while
juggling a demanding career and caring
for their family. Unfortunately, too many tasks in your schedule can cause a
parent to feel burnt out both physically and mentally. If you want to be filled
with passion and energy when caring for your children, you must care for your
body by enjoying some much-needed rest. It’s time to grab an early night, enjoy
a nap while the children are at school, or find a babysitter to take a break from your hectic household.
Talk to a Doctor and Your
Partner if You’re Struggling
Children
notice a lot more than you think. If you are unhappy, you can trust they will
be unhappy too. For that reason alone, you must talk to someone if you are
struggling with stress, anxiety, or depression. The act of talking alone can
often be therapeutic, and you will be able to discuss your feelings in a non-judgmental,
supportive environment when you can confide in a doctor. As a result, a doctor
could direct you to a therapist or could prescribe anti-depressants, which can
help you to feel healthier and happier, so you’ll be 100% present in your
child’s life.
Additionally,
no child will be happy to live in a divided household. If you are constantly
arguing with your partner, you can trust it will impact your kids’ happiness.
The tension and frustration in your relationship could stem from a lack of
intimacy. Therefore, it might be helpful to attempt to reconnect with your partner by enjoying a date night every once in a while.
Book a babysitter and do something fun together, such as enjoying dinner and a movie,
drinks at a sleek bar, or an exciting day at a theme park. Regular dates could
add a spark back into your relationship so that
you can provide your children with a loving, secure home.
An odd thing my wife and I enjoy is connecting over work, doing projects together, and teaching the kids together. We date when we have time and money, but have been short on both most of the time since she is working on her Master's Degree.
ReplyDeleteFor me, it’s all about giving more time for your family. Attention and love really do have an impact for their development.
ReplyDeleteI try to always be there for my kids! My husband and I don't argue much around them, but if we do, we show our kids it's okay to fight and then make up.
ReplyDeleteMy kids are all grown now and as I look back I'm amazed at how the years flew by. All of my kids are well-adjusted, successful adults and I like to think that we did a few things right.
ReplyDeleteCommunication is key in any family in order to make the bond successful. Leading by example with your spouse really cultivates a family.
ReplyDeleteTaking care of one's health is so important whether you are a parent or not. I also agree that it's not healthy to argue in front of children.
ReplyDeleteWhen our kids were growing up we had family home evening every monday as a family. Start the day with pray as family and read scriptures. We worked together to get things done.
ReplyDeleteThese are all excellent points to consider! When I am at my best, I am able to be a more involved wife and mother. It's important to remember you cannot pour from an empty cup.
ReplyDeleteI definitely think that we need to set a good example for our children... in life and especially in marriage.
ReplyDeleteWe spent a lot of time together as a family when my daughter was young and at home. We probably weren't her best role models but she's a very forgiving kid.
ReplyDeleteIt's so important to take care of yourself as a parent. You can't pour from an empty cup!
ReplyDeleteIt can be hard as a parent to juggle taking care of the family and your self. I've learned to listen to my body esp when I need extra sleep and to nap when the kids do. The laundry can wait, the kids need a happy momma, not a tired crabby one.
ReplyDeleteI think these are all great ideas! It is so important to maintain your own health in order to be there for your kids.
ReplyDeleteTaking care of yourself is really important, because it helps you be a better parent. If you're running on fumes, there is only so much you can do and give to your kids.
ReplyDeleteThank you for great tips. It's so important to have a pleasant atmosphere in the house. A date night is a must once in a while!
ReplyDeleteGreat points. The more you take care and nurture yourself, the more you can be there for your loved ones.
ReplyDeleteThese are such great tips. It really is important. I find it hard taking care of me mostly.
ReplyDeleteI'm trying to take care of myself. Teenage years are really a struggle. Taking care of yourself is sometimes hard to remember.
ReplyDeleteI don’t have childrens yet but I agree on your points. Definitely taking carr of yourself is a must in order to take good care of your children too.
ReplyDeleteI will there for my kids, yes hubby take care of them once he back from work. So it is divided. We both take care of our kids, even though get little time to take care of ourselves.
ReplyDeleteThese are great tips. You can't give from an empty cup so you need to make yourself a priority.
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