Some children want to start playing sports at a fairly young age. They
either get interested when watching a sporting event on the television or from
tossing a ball around with dad. Playing sports at any age has a huge impact
that can change their trajectory in life. Today we are looking at all the types
of sports available, how you can support them, and the lessons they learn.
The Variety of Options
If your child just wants to expel a lot of energy, you may be wondering what
the best sport is to put your child in. Here are a few examples:
- Softball/baseball – these games are similar with a few
slight differences. Softball is slower pitching, bigger ball, and smaller
diamond. This is not a full contact sport but accidents can still happen!
- Football – a full-contact sport, even at a young age.
Getting hurt gets more serious as the children age and become stronger and
bigger. While popular among young boys, girls are often welcomed with open
arms.
- Soccer – not an intentional full-contact sport. You
don’t tackle anyone like you would in football but since feet are the
primary use, it is very likely one will get hurt while playing.
- Bowling – may not seem like a sport but it very much
is. No contact and a great skill builder.
Get Them the Gear They Need
Supporting them isn’t just signing them up and letting them have at it. You
got to make sure they have everything they need. That may be custom
softball socks, helmet, shin guards, or wrist guards. Ask your league coach
for advice on what your child needs and brands they may recommend. Getting a
coach recommendation will help you navigate the crazy world of sporting goods.
Don’t forget the water bottles, extra snacks for practices and games, and ride
arrangements for those days when you can’t take them.
Be There!
Aside from everything, be there and be their personal cheerleader. It
doesn’t matter if it’s the first day of tryouts, the first
football scrimmage, their first game as goalie, or the last bowling match,
being there is the best thing you can do for your child and their self-esteem.
It also allows you to get excited for your child and see that they are safe and
learning great stuff.
They Learn More in Sports Than on the iPad
The lessons that a child learns by playing in a youth league are almost
innumerable. Their social
skills improve because they form bonds with their teammates and feel more
confident stepping out into the world knowing they are a part of something
other than the family unit. They learn how to work together and most
importantly, good sportsmanship. Good sportsmanship can be difficult when
winning becomes the center of everything, but children enjoy supporting and
cheering their teammates on and rely on their understanding that those same
people will support them in return. When they see their family in the stands
cheering them on, they learn that they do matter and are important to others
that they love and adore.
There are also physical health lessons that come into play in youth sports.
They learn more about what their body can and cannot do. They feel strong as
they grow and build muscle. They learn more about healthy nutrition in order to
stay in the best shape for their chosen sport.
Team youth sports is a wonderful activity for all children to engage in, no
matter their skill level. We advise you do check with your child’s doctor to be
sure they are physically ready for their new hobby. We suggest you get a new
calendar so that you can manage all the practices, games, and slumber parties
with new friends.
My oldest son plays basketball. He does a town church league and is hoping to make the JV team at the high school this year. My youngest does gymnastics.
ReplyDeleteSports certainly keep the kids busy and the parents as well. Important to have all the correct clothing and protective pads for sure.
ReplyDeleteMy kids always played sports and we loved attending their games and cheering for them too. I agree, it definitely helps them build character.
ReplyDeleteMy son hates sports, so he doesn't play any and I won't force him.
ReplyDeleteHowever, my daughter has played several. Right now she's in middle school and isn't, but that could change! I just let my kids figure out what they want to do.
This is the first year we've had an opportunity to do any kind of sports. I can't wait to see All the games and hang out with other game Parents.
ReplyDeleteWe are definitely going to make sure our future son plays sports. I think it builds a lot of character.
ReplyDeleteIt's definitely healthy in so many ways to help kids learn to love playing sports. There's definitely so many options that almost everyone can find something that will be good for them.
ReplyDeleteI think all kids should try at least one sport in their life! I think sports are so good for kids in teaching them life lessons...sharing, never giving up, teamwork, etc.
ReplyDeleteI love all of your tips and the information that you've provided. This reminds me that I have to get a planner for the kiddos games.
ReplyDeleteBoth of my kids are on the swim team, and it's so great for them to be active. They have goals and it gets them up and moving. I agree with all your tips as well - we are very involved in our kid's sports, from running the timers at competitions to helping fundraise.
ReplyDeleteMy son just never connected with sports. He played little league baseball for a few years, but he never loved it. I couldn't force him to keep playing, and he's quite happy with his academics.
ReplyDeleteI felt like sports were such a positive thing for me. I have a hard time getting my son involved though. He is just not going for it.
ReplyDeleteI am positive sports can have a positive impact as long as parent pressure is off. That is what I think hurts the whole program.
ReplyDeleteI think sports are great for those kids who want to play them. They certainly can teach them a lot. My girls are not in any sports yet, but I'm hoping they'll want to be someday.
ReplyDeleteI just love watching kids wearing their sports uniform. Your son's first pic seems like he is already a Pro. You did a great job sis making them busy with sports.
ReplyDeleteMy girls don't play sports, but they dance. There is such a great sense of family and I love that their teammates and their families have become close to us as well.
ReplyDeleteMy kids are all about sports now that school has started again! These are some great tips!
ReplyDeleteSports should be a part of every child's life. I have such fond memory of playing softball and taking dance and gymnastics classes. What great memories!
ReplyDeletePlaying team sports is so important for children. We just registered our youngest for t-ball and I'm ridiculously excited about it. I hope she loves it! Our oldest is just nine years old and on a competitive rock climbing team. She enjoys it and is very committed to the sport so even though my husband and I are not climbers, we fully support her interest.
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